Harnesses & Fetish

Reimagining Your Kink With Erotic Body Harnesses & Fetish Wear

Fetish wear often seems like it is targeted towards a specific set of stereotypical buyers. It can be hard to find a large selection of men's fetish wear in one place or even if you are looking for women’s fetish wear that falls outside the lines of traditional sizing. Finding kinky wear that is flattering for all figures or made with dual genders in mind can get pretty tricky fast, but at Sex Supply Shop online, you can find any style and size you are looking for.

When you think of kink, chances are BDSM fetish wear is what first pops up in your mind. BDSM play is more accepted and well-known thanks to movies such as 50 Shades of Grey. Of course, with the fresh exposure to the niche, more and more erotic clothing makes are coming out with lines for all shapes, sizes, genders, and kink variations. There no reason that you can’t feel sexy and have fun in erotic fetish wear and bondage gear.

If you are in the market for some adult fetish wear, I have some suggestions that can help you chose. There are amazing options for men who like to dress in bondage wear, women who like to show off their dominance, BBW fetish wear the for curvy queens, and even furry wear for those who are into exotic kink.

What to Look for in Fetish & Bondage Wear

When it comes to fetish wear it is important to consider your comfort. Some types of bondage outfits are intended to cause pleasurable pain, but the fit is what you need to pay attention to. Your kinky wear and harnesses should always sit on your anatomy properly. That means that you will need to choose a size that fits you well, regardless of how small or large you may be.

Pushing your body, especially your delicate areas into the wrong size can be uncomfortable, and in some cases dangerous.  For example, some men's fetish wear feature cock cages and ball straps. Wearing a size that is too small can be painful or even cut off the circulation to this critical area. The same goes for women. Wearing an outfit that is overly baggy is going to look less appealing than a form fitting kinky outfit that matches your body perfectly.

The type of fetish wear you buy will generally revolve around your preferred fetish. For example, if you have a butt fetish, the gear you choose may have cut-outs that expose your rear or you may even chose a latex outfit that brings more attention to your butt. Some fetish wear in each kink is even made to cause discomfort.

Restriction fetish wear such as posture collars, tall stilettos, and bondage corsets are supposed to be uncomfortable, but you should make sure they do not restrict breathing or your circulation. It is important that you use harnesses and bondage ware carefully to prevent accidents or other health hazards. When worn properly, not only will you achieve the perfect erotic aesthetic you are seeking, but you will also attain the desired sensation you and your partners crave.

Types of Fetish Wear  - Make The Most of Your Kink

Let's delve deeper into the world of female fetish wear, body harnesses, and kinky men’s erotic wear. There are options for every body type, size, and even various anatomies. Finding the perfect outfit to add to your kinky closet is as simple as understanding which categories are available and what they entail. Most of these are available at any erotic clothing store, even Sex Supply Shop, but there are many more aside from this list that you can search by name.

Harnesses, Bondage Wear, & Restraint Clothing

Harnesses are really common in the gay fetish wear market. They are perfect for both men and women who want to enact their dreams of domination, or simply emulating cock play. There are harnesses made for women that can be worn on the hips with or without a dildo attachment. Harness for men who want to wear a penis sleeve is also available. Nothing is more erotic than having both holes filled by your partner at the same time, and a double dong or extra dick harness is the perfect fetish wear to achieve it.

Harnesses can also be worn on other parts of the body such as over the shoulders, torso, or even across the whole chest. They can be used for restraint, aesthetics, or for any variety of erotic play. Most erotic harnesses are made from sturdy materials such as durable PVC. Metal buckles paired with leather fetish wear are also common for erotic body harnesses and bondage wear.

Fetish Wear Collars

When it comes to fetish wear for men, you can’t go wrong with a good collar. Any time you attend a fetish, you will see this classic fetish accessory. Collars are a great way to add control into your discipline play, or you can use them to indicate roles in your Dom and Sub erotic adventures. Posture collars are a great way to bend your lover to your will and make them feel your pleasure in the process.

Fetish Wear Corsets

Corsets are a common part of kinky wear that can make anyone look and feel sexy in an instant. There are corsets for both men and women, though the selection for men is much smaller. Corsets can be used as a form of restrain in erotic settings, but they are mainly a form of sexy fetish wear that is intended to accentuate the figure. There are specific corsets for each gender that help to flatter each in the best possible way. Pair a corset with a whip, some buckles, and a ball gag for a night of domination play.

Latex Fetish Wear

Latex is a singular fetish that has no match. There are those that are aroused by wearing latex and those that are aroused by seeing their sexual partner covered in the material. Though a plastic pants fetish comes close, latex erotic play is on a whole other level. You can play alone or with a partner for hours of snugness that will make your body thrum with pleasure.

One note of warning, there are many people who are allergic to latex and those who are overly sensitive to latex. Before buying erotic latex fetish wear make sure that you do not have an allergy. If you plan to indulge in latex fetish play with a partner, it is equally important to make sure they are also not allergic to the material. An alternative option for latex kink is vinyl fetish wear. This will give you nearly the same sensations without the danger of triggering a reaction.

Lingerie Fetish Wear

Lingerie has always been a staple in a woman’s erotic arsenal. Teddies, panty sets, body stockings, bras, mini-dresses, and chemises all fall under the category of lust fetish wear. While you may not think that lingerie can be considered a fetish, but you may be surprised by the sheer variety of kinky options on the market. There are hardcore lingerie outfits, those made with submission in mind, those made for cross-dressers, and more. Boudoir lingerie is a whole separate kink that is an art form in itself. You can seduce and please with nothing more than a look which is perhaps the tamest fetishes of all.

Fetish Wear For The Genders

Kink comes in all colors and genders, fetishes are delightful places of pleasure where you can be whoever you want. Indulging your mind and your body in a sea of bliss is the goal and fetish wear men chose to don is as important as that of women. The point of erotic fetishes is to make you feel good, as a result, wearing what you feel comfortable in is critical.

Many people like to indulge in their crossdressing fetish. Sometimes that means a woman acting out their desires to play the male role, or men looking to get dolled up and take a walk on the softer side. There are so many ways to enjoy kinky play and Sex Supply Shop has fetish and bondage wear to cater to everyone’s taste. With gender fluid and non-gender conforming fetish wear, you can enjoy creative sexual experiences while engaging your imagination.

Take A Step Away From The Ordinary With Kinky Fetish Wear

One of my favorite ways to get in the mood and get out of a sexual rut is to fully engage in kinky play. Even my partner enjoys putting on male fetish wear after a long day at the office. Some people like cosplay, we like on the other hand have a serious furry fetish. Sexy furry fetish wear lets us step out of our comfort zone and engage in wild, animal like sex that is unmatched in any other form. It may sound crazy, but wearing furry fetish clothing and bending over on all fours to be dominated is my kind of plan for a wild weekend of hot sex.

Everyone has their kink and when you chose a kinky outfit to wear, you are setting a part of yourself free. Kinky fetish wear allows you to discover a wild part of your sexual self that is hidden in the vanilla world. Though not my type of fetish, my partner gets a serious boner for bound and restricted feet. I am sure you have seen those impossibly high stilettos with pointed toes in angles that look painful. When I am feeling generous, I’ll throw on a pair and let him rile himself up in passion as he enjoys the visuals.

Dressing up as part of your kink is not only for the indoors. Sex Supply Shop has a whole section dedicated to fetish club wear for men and women who like to party on the go. You can find fetish wear that is undetectable under your outer clothing or even find whole club-worthy outfits you can wear out of the door. While the look is important, it is just as important to choose quality fabric and materials. Depending on how long you plan to keep your outfit you may or may not need very good quality.

For example, if you plan to attend a fetish party where it is most likely you will end up naked, or you will only use the outfit once, lower quality is okay. If you want to wear your fetish gear on a regular basis, or if you are a performer, it is a good idea to chose quality outfits that are made with durable construction. Leather, metal, corsets, and even branded items can run on the more costly side but are worth every penny.

Obscure Fetish? No Problem, Your Kink Is As Sensual As You Are

If you are not quite sure what type of kink you are actually into, one way to test the waters is to visit fetish clubs. These are safe places where adults can go to explore a wide range of erotic pleasures that diverge from the mainstream. Of course, even if you don’t dress the part on your way there, you can certainly find gear to match your kink later down the line. After all, the point is to explore your sexuality to see what turns you on and what makes you explode.

 One interesting kink is a smoking sex fetish. This is pretty self-explanatory. There is a whole niche of people who get turned on watching people smoke while they have sex, or having sex while they themselves smoke. It’s hard to explain, but getting a smoking fetish fuck is much more common than engaging in a water sports fetish.

More common but still quite popular are those who have a gay underwear fetish. You do not have to be gay to have a fetish that focuses on same-sex wearing underwear. After all, there is something wholly erotic about seeing a beautiful man or woman sporting finely crafted underwear over their supple curves. One of my most favorite forms of kink to engage in is our underwater fetish. There is just something so sexy about getting naked and getting banged in the water!

XXX Fetish FAQ

If you are new to the world of kink and fetishes, you may have some questions. Hopefully, I can answer them and help you relax and enjoy your erotic adventures in kink.

What is a fetish?

A fetish is a specific erotic activity or trigger that a person enjoys. Not all fetishes are overtly sexual, however, every fetish triggers a sexual response. Some people have a fetish of seeing beautiful feet in nice shoes. The visual is not sexual, but the person will get sexual satisfaction from the visuals.  

Is it strange to have a fetish?

Having a fetish is completely normal adult behavior. Any adult with a healthy libido can have a fetish that brings them pleasure. There are hundreds if not more fetishes in the world, some are more common and some are less common, but it is not a sign of anything other than a healthy sex drive.

What should you wear to a fetish party?

You should dress according to the type of fetish theme the party will have. If you are going to a bondage party, then it will make sense to wear chains, leather, and tight fetish wear. For those who plan to attend a latex fetish party, bring out the latex bodysuits and high heels. Basically, whichever themed party you plan to attend, dress appropriately.

How do I find other people with a fetish like mine?

Fetishes are very personal. Not everyone shares their erotic taste freely or openly. Some fetishes are more well known than others which may make it easier to find like-minded people. You can always check bulletin boards at your local sex store, join FB groups, or even ask your friends if you feel comfortable.